Happy (American) Thanksgiving all! My husband’s family likes to do a white elephant exchange on Thanksgiving, so while this post may seem bizarrely timed to some of you, it’s actually about something I made for today!
White elephant gift exchanges have recently expanded in terms of meaning. From my childhood, they usually meant something you were gifted or have (generally unused) that you don’t want and choose to re-gift (I have seen gently used videos or games exchanged before, though). However, nowadays, sometimes it means a small gift (usually $10-15) that you choose to either be silly or serious. Basically, it’s become a free for all.
For our family exchange this year, I decided to do one traditional option (two items I had been gifted and didn’t want) and one creative option – a gift I “made” that would be neutral enough for almost anyone.
If you’ve read my Happy Birthday: Poem Candy Board post, this concept will be familiar for you. Essentially, you create a short message and replace some words with candy. For this one, I went a little wild and bought a bunch of candy that I thought could work and wrote the message after the fact. It actually helped me to think outside the usual candy I could come up with. Plus, I wanted all bagged candy for how I planned to put it together, so I just went to the Dollar Tree and bought what I thought would work. I was working with a $10 limit, but I did go over by $2 (oops!). You could totally stick to $10, but I just wanted to get them all!
- Bagged candy with words that can replace parts of your message
- A message that works for your theme (birthday, family, Christmas, congratulations, thank you, whatever)
- Index cards – I used green ones, as you can see in some of the photos
- Permanent marker
- Hole punch
- Write your message and identify what candy you need OR hit the store and buy candy that could work and live dangerously.
- Plot your candy in order and determine what parts of your message need to be written on cards; create the message cards using a marker and index cards. Punch a hole at the top of each card.
- Use the permanent marker to cross out any parts of the candy name that don’t work for your message.
- Starting with the middle of the message, string your candy and message cards onto the ribbon working from the middle to the beginning and then from the middle to the end (especially if you have thick ribbon like I did, this part can be tough, so working outward from the middle is more efficient).
- Tie off the ends of the ribbon so you don’t lose any candy and that’s it!
Note, I chose to string mine on a ribbon because I didn’t want a massive gift, which is what it would have been if I’d used a tri-fold board or foam/poster board. I wanted it to fit nicely in a gift bag, but still be in the right order, hence the ribbon and bagged candy approach. Here’s my message:
- What’s one RIESEN you’re thankful this year?
- Is it for the (sour patch) KIDS in your family? They’re the future.
- Or, more generally for YORKin (like…your kin).
- Hopefully you get to see them both NOW AND LATER
- as we enter the season of silver and (Hershey’s) GOLD.
- Maybe you’ll see them at (Milky Way) MIDNIGHT mass.
- Be sure to hit them DUBBLE (bubble) time
- with lots of (Hershey’s) HUGS and (Hershey’s) KISSES.
- And remind them to be (Mr.) GOOD(bar)
- if they want Santa to bring a BUNCHA (crunch)
- Christmas (Maple Nut) GOODIES.