Gift Ideas: Family Tree

This year, my husband and I (okay, okay, I basically coerced him) decided to do handcrafted Christmas. What is handcrafted Christmas, you ask? Well, basically we made homemade or personalized gifts for everyone on our shopping list. This started, in part, because I love to craft and wanted to try a bunch of different projects (but I don’t need a million crafts laying around the house), but also, my side of the family was doing a gift exchange this year, so I wouldn’t have the opportunity to buy for everyone. This way, I could still shop for my gift exchange assignments, but I could make everyone in the fam a personalize, heart-felt gift too!

As much as I’ve been wanting to post about these ideas for weeks now, I decided to wait until just before and then after Christmas to avoid any risk of anyone seeing their gift ahead of time. But, since I know my mom doesn’t read my blog regularly (thanks a lot, Ma hehe), I figured I’d be safe posting her gift a few days early.

I have a huge family – 4 siblings and lots of nieces and nephews. Family is really important to my mom (and to all of us, really), so I thought it’d be neat to make her something to showcase her big family, which is how I landed on creating a family tree.

I did a lot of researching online to get ideas for a family tree, but nothing I saw was really striking my fancy. There are lots of options on Etsy where you can get a printed version of a tree with text and it looks cool, but I didn’t just want a sheet of paper for her. There are also lots where you have a physical tree and then can hang little pieces with names, but I didn’t love this either, so I decided to create something of my own design. Here’s how I did it.


  • Baltic Birch plywood (HIGHLY encourage getting nice wood for this – you will see below my first draft which was AWFUL in part because I used crappy wood)
  • Paper and pencil for drafting / practicing
  • Scroll saw or other type of saw to cut out your design
  • Sandpaper
  • Stain – I used Varathane Stain + Poly in Kona Semi-Gloss
  • Dremel or other carving tool (I used a Dremel Model 290 Engraver)
  • Command strips for mounting (I used the large velcro strips – I put them on the back of the tree and just left the wall side protective strips on so it’s super simple for my mom to hang up)


  • Draft the design. I made several iterations of the design before I got to one I liked. I started by writing out all of my family members’ names and grouping them together by family. I thought about including birthdates as well, but ultimately landed on just first and middle names. Once I knew I wanted to make an actual tree, I took my draft and turned it into a general tree shape with branches off the trunk for my mom’s kids (me and my 4 siblings) and then smaller branches coming off of our branches for the kids. Not all of my siblings have kids (for example, I have no children), so I either left it as a singular branch or added some small nubby branches for texture. My oldest sister has a kid who is already married and may be having children soon, so I made sure to include room on the branch for her husband’s name and two little branches off of their main branch for their future kids. Once I had my general design on paper, I put it onto the wood. Most of this I did free-hand, but you could find an image online and print it out. (The size I wanted would have been too big to print at home, but you can always print at FedEx or OfficeMax too!)
  • Cut it out. For v1, I used a jigsaw. This worked okay, but combined with the crappy plywood, it left choppy edges with some splintering. For v2, I used a scroll saw (never used one before this!!) and it came out super well. The biggest difference for me between the two is that it’s much easier to control YOUR speed on the scroll saw. You can set the speed that the blade moves, but you also move the wood rather than the saw, so it’s much easier to navigate slowly and steadily. Be sure to wear protective eye gear and keep your fingers away from the blade!
  • Sand and stain. You definitely want to sand the edges where you cut, including the tips of the branches. Be sure to give the front face a nice, quick sand using a high numbered paper (the higher the number the finer the grit, which means you’ll take less off for a smoother finish. If you have super rough edges, use a lower number grit to get more off at once). When you go to stain, definitely put down a cover for your workspace (it will make clean up SUPER easy) and be sure to start with the edges and then fade into the face of the tree. On v1, I forgot to do the edges first and you can see where I did them after the fact, which created somewhat of an outline effect to the tree. Do the edges as you go part by part staining in the rest of the tree to create a seamless blending. Let dry for at least 2 days in a well-ventilated, temperature controlled area (I let mine dry in my craft room instead of my basement so it’d go quicker).


  • Carve. DEFINITELY practice on a scrap piece of stained wood first. Do not just dive straight into carving your piece. You need to get the feel for the tool and how it reacts to the wood and the stain. Be careful about making your letters too small – you may end up popping out any small portions completely, which doesn’t look great. Again, this is another reason to use the quality wood – I didn’t have any parts pop out completely, even with some pretty small letters. I free-handed all of my letters. You could use a metal stencil if you want, but if you practice enough (I had an entire tree of practice), then you can probably get away with free-handing as well. Just remember to go slow, take breaks, and breathe. Oh, and do a first pass of all the names and THEN go back and re-do any letters that didn’t come out quite right.

That’s it! All in all, v2 probably took about 4 hours in total (minus the lag time between staining and carving). It really wasn’t that tough of a project, but definitely learned a lot between the first and second version. If you apply what I’ve shared above, your first version will likely be amazing! See the huge difference between versions below. You can barely even read the names in v1, whereas v2 is clear and clean. Using better wood and a darker stain likely made this difference.


Take A Trip: Australia

I count myself lucky to be an American who’s had the pleasure of visiting Australia more than once. I’ve been twice now, both times for work, but with some fun sprinkled in. I won’t bore you with the details of the trips, per se, but instead will focus on the cool stuff I got to do along the way.

Before we get into the parts of Australia, here’s a few tips overall:

  • Check your visa needs before you go! You will get stopped at the airport (at least in the US/UK) if you don’t. If you’re coming from the US (and likely many other countries), you have to apply online for the visa ahead of time and pay a fee ($20 AUD). It doesn’t take long to grant the visa (less than 24-hours) and it’s electronic, but you still have to do it before you go. If you aren’t sure what visa requirements apply to you, one of my favorite sources is Just put in where you’re coming from, going to and the country of your passport and voila!
  • Don’t count on American Express. My employer uses Amex for our corporate cards (which is a super nice perk and I’m very grateful for it!), but 90% of everyday places in Australia don’t take it. (Yes, the nicer restaurants / establishments tend to.) When I’m there and not doing stuff for work, I’d prefer to live like a local, which means going into small bakeries or hitting street sales. American Express is not your friend at these places. Make sure you’re traveling with Visa or Mastercard and ideally a chip card. Tapping to pay is also a common thing, so if you’ve got data on your phone, that’ll work. If you prefer to use cash, I’m a fan of just withdrawing money from an ATM with my bank card (vs. exchanging USD somewhere). I’ve never had an issue with it in Australia and with my bank, some ATMs are even free of charge!
  • Coffee is never regular (American) coffee. You will be hard pressed to find drip coffee in any part of the country, but if you like espresso, try a long black. Otherwise, find somewhere that offers french press coffee (even this is hard to come by). However, if you like espresso, get excited because they have TONS of amazing espresso for your enjoyment.
  • If you can manage business class (or find an amazing fare), DO IT! Coming from pretty much anywhere, the flight to Australia is worth the business class investment. For US folks, it’s basically a minimum of 14 hours and depending on where you live, you’ll probably need to tack on a few hours to get to a city where flights down under depart. I’ve flown through Vancouver, CAN, Houston, TX and Los Angeles, CA. All were pretty easy, but the flight times for the long leg varied a bit – LAX was 14 hours, YVR was 16 and IAH was 17. So, as stated, business class is WORTH IT. The food is amazing, the alcohol helps with sleeping and, oh yea, depending on who you fly with, you will 100% get a lay flat bed and maybe, just maybe, a pillow topper for that bed and PAJAMAS!!! Not to mention, you’ll get lounge access at the airport (so free food and drinks and a quiet, clean place to hang out). I recently flew United Polaris and the experience was insane. Here’s a few pics to show you what I mean:

(the cart shown was bringing around dessert – there were tiers of delicious treats and an ice cream sundae option as well; you can see the provided bedding and pajamas on the long haul flight; the food shown was on my flight to Houston before I picked up my long leg…so this was just basic first class food! I don’t have any Polaris food pics, but rest assured, it was fantastic.)

Sydney (NSW)

First up, Sydney, in the state of New South Wales. This is the major city for Australia, and where you will most likely fly into or through depending on your final destination in Australia or, in many cases, New Zealand. Sydney is BEAUTIFUL and has lots of great things to offer both in, around and not-completely-far from the city.

First, some general notes about Sydney:

  • There are two parts to the city itself: the CBD (Central Business District), which is on the South side of the bridge and North Sydney, which is on the….north side of the bridge. By “the bridge” I, of course, mean the Sydney Harbour Bridge, one of the most iconic bridges in the world. (I think I might have a thing for bridges…). The CBD is definitely more active than North Sydney, but there is some neat stuff on the north side of the city that I recommend below (I stayed on the north side for work).
  • Public transit is great. I HIGHLY recommend getting an Opal card when you arrive. You can get them lots of places, including the train station at the airport. An Opal card makes it easy to use public transit to get into and around the city. The cab/uber ride from the airport into the city can get pretty pricey even though it’s only a 20-30 minute ride. The train is like $10-12 AUD. Anyway, the Opal card is great because you can use it for busses, trains, and ferries (all of which you should try – they are all easy to navigate especially if you have GoogleMaps or similar (or are familiar with reading timetables online)).
  • There are lots of neat neighborhoods just outside the city, including Bondi, Manly and Neutral Bay. Some are best to get to by Ferry (Manly), train (Neutral Bay), or bus (Bondi) – just really depends on where you’re coming from / going. Explore all options and see more of the greater city area than just downtown / the harbour.
  • Sydney isn’t really that far from great natural areas. Obviously, the ocean runs along the east side of the city with the very large harbour in the middle, but just about 2 hours slightly north and mostly west on a train and you’re in the gorgeous Blue Mountains region. It’s definitely worth the train ride out, but more about that below.
  • There are luggage lockers around the city where you can drop your bags when you first arrive or before you leave (if you can’t yet check-in to or have already checked out of your hotel). I think we paid maybe $15 to have our luggage stored for several hours before our evening flight out. This was great because it allowed us to roam around the city freely! We used this place, but there are lots of options.

Okay, now, let’s get into recommendations. This is by no means an exhaustive list (I am only one person who can only do so much!), but these were the things I did, and enjoyed, whilst there.

  • Botanic Gardens – this is a great ‘when you arrive’ activity. You can do as much or as little walking as you’d like – there are spots to just chill on the grass by the water, or you can wind your way through the miles of pathway. It’s also right by the Opera House, so two birds, one stone.
    • For Americans, you’ll get in usually pretty early in the morning. Hopefully you’ve caught some shuteye on the plane and can stay up for the day because that’s the goal. When you land, stay up as long as possible, ideally until at least early evening, and then go to bed and sleep until morning. This should get you acclimated within a day. PS, coming back to the states SUCKS and the jetlag is way worse so just prepare yourself. At least you won’t be tired on your vacation. 🙂
  • Opera House – this is right at Circular Quay, the central ferry terminal for Sydney (this is also a central spot to pick up a train, bus or cab). Quay is pronounced as key. Anyway, you have to see this while you’re there – you almost can’t NOT see it, so that’s good. But if you aren’t in the city, make it a point to get there to see it in person. It is both bigger and smaller than you think it’s going to be. It’s also apparently amazing to actually see shows in. I didn’t, but a colleague of mine did and really enjoyed it.
    • Note, there are lots of nice restaurants around this area. Sydney Cove Oyster Bar is quite yummy, although a little pricey. There’s also some shopping, although if you’re looking for a souvenir shop, I’d actually recommend just waiting until the airport on your way home. I found the airport prices to be cheaper than the stores in the city AND they had all the same stuff (maybe even more / better options!).
  • Syndey Harbour Bridge walk – this is simple and free – walk from the CBD to North Sydney (or the other way around) at least once. You will have beautiful views of the water, bridge and city. You could do the Sydney Harbour Bridge climb, where you go up and over the bridge, but it’s somewhat pricey (I saw anywhere from $260-$400 AUD). I opted for the free version, although maybe someday if I’m ever back there, I’ll give it a go.
  • The Rocks Market – Every Saturday and Sunday you can find a little street fair market in The Rocks. This is an area to the Southeast of the bridge right by the water / docks. If you start at Circular Quay and you’re facing the ferry station, it’s to your left – follow the pathway around until you get just past the Art Museum and head up the hill toward the cobblestone road. You should see lots of stalls with handicrafts, clothing, art and food. If you aren’t there for the weekend, there are still lots of cute little restaurants and shops in this area.
  • Helicopter Ride over the city – my husband was able to come out during my first trip to Sydney and we did this together. There were INCREDIBLE views of all parts of the city and it really wasn’t all that expensive (maybe like $150 AUD per person, which with the conversion at the time was only like $115 / person for 15 minutes in the air). Here are some pics to show you why you should do it. We used Blue Sky Helicopters and took public transit to get there. That was a little bit sketchy, as we had to walk near a highway and around the airport, but we managed. The tour company was great – we were in a mixed group with two other couples and my husband got to ride up front with the pilot, so had probably the best view out of everyone!
  • Bondi Beach – we decided to rent bikes from Bronte (one neighborhood over) and ride to Bondi Beach. It was an absolutely incredible and enjoyable ride until we went downhill a TON and got to the bottom and realized we’d have to ride back up 🙂 That said, it wasn’t that bad and was totally worth it because the Icebergs Club and Bondi Beach are both beautiful. We happened upon the annual Sculpture by the Sea event, which is right near Bondi Beach in the cliffs and it was really cool. It was pretty packed, so beware that could be the case for you, but it’s every year right at the beginning of summer (so end of October / beginning of November – different hemisphere).
    • Coogee to Bondi walk – I have not done this myself, but I’ve heard from others who have that it’s amazing. It is an urban coastal walk which takes you on a 6 km hike/walk.
  • Manly Beach – this is a must-do in my opinion. If I were to live in Sydney, I’d definitely live in Manly. There is a great beach, shopping and tons of awesome restaurants and cafes. There is also a lot of hiking and other outdoor sport to do! And, it’s only a 20-30 minute ferry ride, with more great views, from Circular Quay. Please note, you can use your Opal card for either the normal ferry (30-minute ride, cheaper fare) or the Manly Fast Ferry (20-minute ride, $9.10 fare as of Nov. 2018); both have bars. Some of my favorite places in Manly are:
    • Hugos – this is right at the ferry terminal when you come in, but it’s also on the water. It’s an Italian restaurant with really fun cocktails (and even cocktail jugs – I had the apple / watermelon one and it was DELICIOUS) and yummy plates to share.
    • Manly Greenhouse – I went here for afternoon cocktails on a Sunday and it was jamming at the 3rd floor bar. However, this is where it’s at. It’s an open air spot with fantastic views of the water. They also have really fun cocktails and even pretty good “bar food,” which is much better than American bar food. We got arancini with fresh provolone inside, white bait (these are tiny little fish – you eat the whole thing tip to tail), and fat chips. Even the chips (aka fries) were great and they came with a really good aioli.
    • The Pantry – this place is right on Manly Beach (not across the road where the majority of places are) so it has unobstructed views of the open water. It’s pretty spectacular. They also have really nice food and you can get cocktails.
  • Manly to the Spit Bridge hike – if you do decide to make it over to Manly, which you should, then you could make your way back toward the city on the Manly to the Spit Bridge urban coastal hike. This is a 10km walk up and down the coast from Manly to Mosman. It is definitely a little bit intense in some parts, and it is pretty long, so be smart about if/when you go. Make sure to take plenty of water, wear sunscreen and dress for the weather. I made the trek on a beautiful 80 degree day and really enjoyed it, but I definitely was sweating up a storm and the sun was beating down on me. In hindsight, probably should’ve worn a hat. You can pick up this hike at either end – if you start at the Spit Bridge (probably a better starting point than a finish, because after you finish in Manly you could enjoy a drink or food and there’s not much near the bridge in Mosman), take the stairs beneath the bridge to pick up the trail. If you start in Manly, when you come out of the ferry terminal, turn left and follow the path behind the little beach there. You’ll see signs periodically to let you know you’re on the right path. At one point, I did have to ask someone for directions, but he was an incredibly friendly Aussie who told me exactly where to go to pick it back up.
  • Mr. Wong – this is a restaurant in the CBD. They don’t accept reservations unless it’s for a large group, so if you want to go, I recommend showing up right when they open so you can get a seat quickly. Otherwise, you’re in for a long wait. This place is a really cool and delicious Chinese restaurant. Definitely opt to share plates – we did a chef’s special steamed dim sum to start and then a veggie, a rice and two meats to share for our main (amongst 3 people) and it was the perfect amount. It is a pricier restaurant, but everything I’ve had there has been excellent (I went on both of my trips…so that might tell you something…)
    • On my recent trip, we wanted to go for a nightcap after dinner, so we headed to Tank Stream bar around the corner. They were closing, but directed us to this basement speakeasy around the corner (that, coincidentally, is attached to Mr. Wong through a door in the lower level) called Palmer and Co. It had a very cool 1920s vibe and really good cocktails to boot.
  • O Bar and Dining – the hubs and I have started to develop a thing for revolving restaurants (well, maybe I just like them and he goes along with it…I don’t know) but we went to our first one in Seattle at the Space Needle and had the pleasure of visiting one of the TWO rotating restaurants in Sydney, O Bar and Dining. From what I’ve heard, this is the better of the two (it’s in tall, circular office building, not the Westfield tower). The food was absolutely amazing and I got to visit this spot on both trips as well (we had a work event there one night on my recent trip). It is definitely on the pricey side, but with the 360 degree-view of the city every 80 minutes, it’s worth it. Plus, did I mention how good the food was?!


  • Flaky Tart Bakery – this is on the north side of the city just over the Harbour bridge. If you decide to make that walk and are looking for a little snack before you head back to the CBD, hit up this little spot. Go down the stairs and turn right toward the road and then right again before the road. It will be directly on your right-hand side (you may or may not have to cross under the bridge, depending on which side you walked over on). I went there one morning for breakfast and had a fantastic quiche with ham and a fresh-from-the-oven, still-warm doughnut that really changed the whole outlook of my day.
  • Whale watching – this is only a good idea during certain parts of the year when the whales are likely migrating along the coast, but if you are there during the peak season, it’s a fun time. I can’t find the name of the company we went out with, but there are lots to choose from. Our boat was a pretty small, but very fast, one. I would not recommend if you get easily seasick – take a bigger boat out. We had a great time and got to see a few different whales while we were out.
  • The Blue Mountains – if you’ve got an extra day, fit this in. It’s a 2-hour train journey from the city, but the train ride itself is quite scenic and is very smooth. We grabbed breakfast and enjoyed it on the train and just hung out. When we arrived, we booked a bus tour which took us to a number of scenic spots. One of the best stops was Scenic World, which allows you to take a few gondola rides and this super steep train-like ride down the mountain. It would be a great place to take kids too! There are also some neat antique shops in town if you’re looking for more shopping. And then you can take a nap to recover from the day on your train ride back to the city.


Melbourne (VIC)

I have almost no records of my time here (it was only ~2 days total), so I can’t tell you what I ate or drank or enjoyed (but do have some pics below), but here’s what I will say: Melbourne (pronounced by the locals as Melbun with the emphasis on the Mel) is a very cool city. It is a little more artsy / funky / laidback and is supposed to have one of the greatest coffee scenes in the world. So, if you have some extra time or want to city hop, I’d recommend this as an option.


Great Barrier Reef (Cairns, Australia, QLD)

When the hubs came out to join me on my first trip, we decided it’d be a real shame NOT to visit the Great Barrier reef. It is dying, after all. So, we stayed for a few days in Sydney before heading up to Cairns, a coastal city that has lots of options for getting out to the GBR. I wouldn’t recommend the place we stayed (it was a bit of a dive hotel, but it was cheap), but this is a cool little town. Though they don’t have a proper beach for lounging, they do have tons of souvenir shopping and lots of options for getting out to the reef. We used Down Under Dive and had a great experience. We did two rounds of scuba diving and some snorkeling. It was our first time with scuba and it was such a fun experience. We definitely want to try it elsewhere.

Throughout our entire time in Cairns, we walked everywhere. It’s a very small town and easy to navigate on foot. A few places of note in Cairns:

  • Four Cinq – this was a really good ramen place we went one evening. If you like ramen, I would definitely recommend it because it’s actually authentic.
  • Foot and Body by Healing Touch – this was in the Orchid Plaza shopping centre. My  hubs and I got a couples massage for super cheap and it was really good. We walked out of there feeling dazed because we felt so relaxed.
  • The Esplanade Lagoon- this is right by the water and is a massive pool / kids water play area.

Finally, I’ll leave you with my personal recommendations on the best souvenirs to bring back home with you:

  • Timtams – these are an Australian cookie treat. There are tons of different flavors. This time I brought home caramel and mint chocolate chip and both were soooo good. You can buy these at any grocery store.
  • Kangaroo scrotum coin pouch – these are a huge hit with the family back home because they are so bizarre. And don’t worry, Aussies eat kangaroo meat (and they are kind of a nuisance like deer are in certain parts of the US), so nothing is going to waste. You can buy these at any souvenir shop / most shops in the airport.
  • Other Kangaroo leather products – shoes, glove, wallets, etc. You can buy these goods at many souvenir and airport shops.
  • Wine – Australia is known for its many wine regions, so there are lots of options to choose from. You can buy from one of the numerous wine shops around the city.
  • Aboriginal art – this work is often characterized by a dot painting technique and makes for very cool artwork. You can buy at one of the many galleries in the city or from souvenir shops.
  • Casey’s Chocolates – this might be harder to find, but I met this guy at a street sale in Manly on a Saturday and he let me sample (and ultimately sold me) some super delicious chocolate that he makes. It is all dairy-free and it’s quite a treat.

If you want more ideas or to chat through anything you’re planning, leave a comment below! I’m by no means an expert on Australia or Sydney, but I do have some base knowledge and lots of friends there who can help with expert advice too!

Brown Paper Packages: Festively Accented

The countdown to Christmas has officially begun! This year, I am feeling particularly festive and on top of the holiday (90% of my gifts are purchased, wrapped and under my fully decorated tree in my decorated house).

But, every year, I try to do something fun and themed with my gift wrapping. In the past, I’ve done the classic mix and match of cute Christmas printed wrapping paper, but starting about 3 years ago, I switched over to a brown paper base. There is a two-part reasoning behind this: 1, I like how clean and classic brown paper looks – it goes with virtually any color scheme of decor (except maybe like glittery / white / silver modern) because you can accent it any way you’d like and 2, I found this giant, and I mean GIANT, role of plain brown paper in the attic of the house we used to rent before we bought our home. In hindsight, we probably shouldn’t have just taken it with us, but, well, we did. Sorry, Dave.

Anyhow, it’s so massive, it’s lasted me through many years of Christmas and projects thus far. You can see it used in the first post in this series, Brown Paper Packages: Tied Up With String, or in other posts, like How to Host a Murder: 1880s Western or Thanksgiving Crafts for Hosting.

Last year, I went with brown paper wrapping accented with red and green glittery pompoms. Unfortunately, I don’t have any pictures of my wrapping (what is wrong with me?!), but I got the pompoms at the Dollar Tree. I took two approaches to using the pompoms last year:

  1. I would put a few together for a cute bunch in the middle or corner of a present and write “To” and “From” in permanent marker near it. (I would usually do a mix of red and green and big, medium, and small.)
  2. I’d first draw some sort of picture that would be meaningful or related to the receiver and incorporate the pompom within it. For example, I did Santa playing basketball with a pompom as the ball for my nephew who plays basketball and a kitty with a Santa hat with the pompom as the ball at the tip of the hat for my niece who loves kitties, like me. You get the idea. And, like with #1, I’d just write the “To” and “From” in permanent marker (I also did the drawing in permanent marker).

They were cute. Sorry I can’t show you them.

This year, I saw some cute Christmas picks at the Dollar Tree and grabbed them just because. Then, when thinking about how to accent my brown paper packages, I decided, why not add a 3D element to my gifts and use the individual pieces of the pick?! So, I got a few more picks and a little bag of acorns so I’d have a good selection to work with and plenty for all of my gifts.

I also decided to do something a little differently for the “To” and “From” labels. As per the above, I’d done permanent marker and last year I did stamping. I always used to love gift tags and selecting which tag to give to which person, so I decided to look for some of these. What I found instead of the classic sticker gift tags were these cute little gift tag books with glitter that are on a sticky pad that pops them off the gift. I got a couple of packs of these to go with my Christmas picks and acorns (all of this from the Dollar Tree; the little book gift tags came in packs of 18 for only $1!). Then, using some classic white glue to secure my pick elements to the gifts, I went to work!

The final result was this:


Gift Ideas: For the Host(ess)

I’m actually giving this gift at a party I’m going to tonight, so banking on the fact that the host of the party isn’t reading this post before he receives this (hi Adam!).

The hubs and I were invited to an X-mas Xtravaganza this year. We’ve never been to the home of this couple, so I wanted to take along a little host(ess) gift for them. Since we’ve never been there and I have absolutely no idea about the style / design aesthetic of their house, I decided to go low risk with a small gift basket with the following:

  • Hand-designed mugs. You can see a few other options for designing these in my post Gift Ideas: Couple Christmas Kits (coming Christmas 2018). For this basket, I decided to go with their first name initials, using the dot technique. I chose yellow, as I found out that’s their accent color in their kitchen (and mugs go in the kitchen….).
    • Materials:
      • Mugs – I got these at the Dollar Tree. Be sure to get oven safe ones.
      • Oil-based paint marker – Joann Fabrics sells these in packs or by themselves and has a wide variety of colors.
      • Letter stencil – I have a big book of pre-cut letters (which you’ll see I use in many of my crafts – it was a great purchase) which I used here, but you could also use letter stickers for this one. If you have a paper letter, you’ll also want a glue stick to attach it to the mug.
    • Instructions:
      • Choose what side you want the letter to go on / which way you want the handle facing. I chose to have the handles opposite each other, as it makes for cuter presentation when the two mugs are together.
      • Attach the letter in the center of the mug. Then, make a bunch of small dots around the edge of the letter so you have a good outline (but not completely solid). Then, get crazy with dots out and around the letter. I usually try to make a generally circular shape around the letter with good dot coverage and then add a few random floaters fanned out slightly from there.
      • Remove the letter stencil and let dry overnight. Then, bake at 250°F for 2 hours on a baking sheet. Remove from oven and let cool completely.


  • Fireside Coffee Mix. This has been a holiday favorite of mine for over 10 years. My high school art teacher first shared it with me (I cannot for the life of me remember why) and I’ll pull it out every few years to make for myself or as a gift.
    • Materials:
      • Jar – I got this one from the Dollar Tree. There are tons of varieties you can get; a mason jar works great too.
      • Ribbon + tag – I made my tag out of Christmas craft paper I have (not pictured).
      • Ingredients for the mix- powdered coffee creamer, instant coffee, hot cocoa packets, sugar, nutmeg, cinnamon
    • Instructions:
      • Combine all ingredients in a bowl and mix together:
        • 4 packs hot cocoa mix
        • 1 cup powdered creamer
        • 3/4 cup sugar
        • 1/2 cup instant coffee
        • 1/2 tsp cinnamon
        • 1/4 tsp nutmeg
      • Transfer to the jar.
      • Cut the ribbon long enough to wrap around the mouth of the jar, with some extra to make a bow. TIP – I ALWAYS underestimate how much ribbon it takes to make a bow. You can always cut excess, but you can’t add more, so give yourself some length to work with. Then add the tag, tie the ribbon and that’s it!
  • Kahlua. This is a great addition to any cup of coffee and will be especially tasty with the cinnamon-y, chocolate-y goodness of the Fireside Coffee.
  • Chocolates. Lindor Lindt truffles make for pretty presentation in a mug or floating in a basket. And, they come in a variety of colors / flavors, so they can be a perfect, addition to many types of gift baskets, especially the color baskets (like this one). I chose gold (caramel and milk chocolate), as it would align with the yellow kitchen accent color. Then, I added teal and royal blue (milk chocolate and sea salt and dark chocolate, respectively) as the hostess’ favorite color is blue.
  • Cute basket. Since this was a home warming gift, I wanted to get a small basket that they might actually use in their house. I chose this sisal rope + navy basket because navy is pretty neutral (and again, blue is her favorite color) and the natural element of the sisal seemed like maybe it could work for them. We’ll find out!


Gift Ideas: White Elephant

Happy (American) Thanksgiving all! My husband’s family likes to do a white elephant exchange on Thanksgiving, so while this post may seem bizarrely timed to some of you, it’s actually about something I made for today!

White elephant gift exchanges have recently expanded in terms of meaning. From my childhood, they usually meant something you were gifted or have (generally unused) that you don’t want and choose to re-gift (I have seen gently used videos or games exchanged before, though). However, nowadays, sometimes it means a small gift (usually $10-15) that you choose to either be silly or serious. Basically, it’s become a free for all.

For our family exchange this year, I decided to do one traditional option (two items I had been gifted and didn’t want) and one creative option – a gift I “made” that would be neutral enough for almost anyone.

If you’ve read my Happy Birthday: Poem Candy Board post, this concept will be familiar for you. Essentially, you create a short message and replace some words with candy. For this one, I went a little wild and bought a bunch of candy that I thought could work and wrote the message after the fact. It actually helped me to think outside the usual candy I could come up with. Plus, I wanted all bagged candy for how I planned to put it together, so I just went to the Dollar Tree and bought what I thought would work. I was working with a $10 limit, but I did go over by $2 (oops!). You could totally stick to $10, but I just wanted to get them all!


  • Bagged candy with words that can replace parts of your message
  • A message that works for your theme (birthday, family, Christmas, congratulations, thank you, whatever)
  • Ribbon 
  • Index cards – I used green ones, as you can see in some of the photos
  • Permanent marker
  • Hole punch


  • Write your message and identify what candy you need OR hit the store and buy candy that could work and live dangerously.
  • Plot your candy in order and determine what parts of your message need to be written on cards; create the message cards using a marker and index cards. Punch a hole at the top of each card.


  • Use the permanent marker to cross out any parts of the candy name that don’t work for your message.


  • Starting with the middle of the message, string your candy and message cards onto the ribbon working from the middle to the beginning and then from the middle to the end (especially if you have thick ribbon like I did, this part can be tough, so working outward from the middle is more efficient).
  • Tie off the ends of the ribbon so you don’t lose any candy and that’s it!


Note, I chose to string mine on a ribbon because I didn’t want a massive gift, which is what it would have been if I’d used a tri-fold board or foam/poster board. I wanted it to fit nicely in a gift bag, but still be in the right order, hence the ribbon and bagged candy approach. Here’s my message:

  • What’s one RIESEN you’re thankful this year?
  • Is it for the (sour patch) KIDS in your family? They’re the future.
  • Or, more generally for YORKin (like…your kin).
  • Hopefully you get to see them both NOW AND LATER
  • as we enter the season of silver and (Hershey’s) GOLD.
  • Maybe you’ll see them at (Milky Way) MIDNIGHT mass.
  • Be sure to hit them DUBBLE (bubble) time
  • with lots of (Hershey’s) HUGS and (Hershey’s) KISSES.
  • And remind them to be (Mr.) GOOD(bar)
  • if they want Santa to bring a BUNCHA (crunch)
  • Christmas (Maple Nut) GOODIES.

Thanksgiving Crafts for All

I love my mom, but one thing she is not is crafty. She can come up with crazy, fun ideas, but actually executing them is not her strong suit. The good news – she is incredibly self-aware on this point. So, that leaves the (Thanksgiving) crafts to me – hooray!

Every year at our Thanksgiving dinner, we take time to say what we’re grateful / thankful for. Sometimes, we get a little wild and do this through crafting. If you’re looking for a fun Thanksgiving craft good for most ages, I’ve got a couple of ideas to share:

  • Thankful Turkey Board – this was a bit of a twist on our normal ‘This year I’m thankful for…’. Rather than saying WHAT we were thankful for, we each drew two names of people at our celebration and wrote down something that we’re thankful for about that person. This was easy because it was all family, but this might be a little tougher if you’ve got a mixed group of family and friends or you have folks who bring a friend/date that no one has met before. The names were written on pre-cut ‘feathers’ and we wrote the thankful messages there too. Then, we read them off one by one and one person added the feathers to the turkey board. It was a really nice activity and left us with a cool final product!
    • Materials:
      • Foam board (Dollar Tree)
      • Wrapping paper (optional) – I covered my foam board with wrapping paper to give it a little somethin’ extra, but this definitely isn’t required
      • Red, orange, yellow, and brown paper to cut the feathers out (feel free to veer from the norm of traditional Thanksgiving colors)
      • Markers for writing the names / messages on the feathers
      • Scrap newspaper, padding, foam, or batting (something to stuff your turkey body)
      • Brown paper – you could use a brown paper bag, wrapping paper, or similar
      • Googly eyes or white paper to make the eyes
      • Pre-cut color letters (optional)
    • Instructions:
      • If you’re going to wrap your board with wrapping paper, do this first.
      • Then, build your turkey body. I cut out the general shape and then started by gluing around the edge of one half of the turkey. Then, I stuffed its body and glued around the other half. NOTE: before you start stuffing/gluing him, be sure to add your eyes (either googly eyes or white circles with a draw-on black dot for the pupil), beak (yellow-ish triangle with a rounded tip) and waddle (I drew this on with a red marker). These parts are MUCH hard to add after your turkey is on the board and fluffy.
      • Next, cut out a zillion feathers. Okay, okay, you don’t need a zillion. Last year we had 17 people at Thanksgiving and I needed two per person (each person drew 2 names), so I cut out 34 (plus a few extra just in case). I took my craft paper and folded it hamburger style and then drew a feather with the base at the folded edge and the side at one end of the paper. Then, I folded it accordion style so I could cut 10-12 feathers at once (5-6 folds x 2 since the paper is folded in half). You could also just draw one, cut it out and then use it as a stencil to draw and cut the rest, but this will take longer. (See below pics illustrating my method.)
      • Finally, write each person’s name on two feathers and add the letters to the top of your board. Firstly, you don’t have to add ANYTHING to the top, but I figured my mom would keep this and would want to remember when it was from, so I added the year. Secondly, as you can probably tell, only Thanksgiving is done in pre-cut letters. I hand-wrote 2017 on the board.
      • At your Thanksgiving celebration, have everyone draw two feathers and complete the activity before dinner. At the end of dinner (or whenever, really), have each person read theirs one by one and use a glue stick to paste them up on the board in a feathery way.


  • Individual Thankful Turkeys – we’ll see how this goes tomorrow, but this year, we are making individual turkeys that have what we’re thankful for on them. This is a good craft if you have family/friends that are a little bit older / can handle some crafting (not great for young kids). All my nieces/nephews who will be at the dinner are 9+, so hopefully it works out!
    • Materials:
      • Used toilet paper rolls – I started collecting these about a month before, just to be safe. You need one per person attending + one extra for an example turkey.
      • Red, brown, yellow, orange, tan paper (or whatever color variation you want for your feathers)
      • Glue – liquid glue will work a bit better for this one
      • Pens/markers to write on the feathers and the TP rolls
      • Googly eyes – I got a big pack at the Dollar Tree for $1, but you could also just draw eyes onto your turkey
    • Prep Instructions:
      • Similar to the above, make your feathers. I had 5 colors of paper, so I made 5 feathers for each person. We have a slightly lighter crew this year (only 14), so I made a total of ~80 (5 p/p, plus the example + some spares)
      • For this craft, you also need to make enough beaks and waddles for each person. For both, I used the same feather / folding approach. I drew one waddle and folded my paper a bunch and then cut it out (so I could get several waddles in one shot). The beaks were super easy as I just cut squares that can be folded in half to create a triangle beak + triangle that can be glued to the body.
      • Then, write at the bottom of each TP roll. You, of course, don’t have to write at the bottom, but I wanted it to be obvious what the turkeys were for, so I wrote ‘I’m thankful for…’ and then each person will write their thankful items on the feathers.
      • Finally, cut slits into the side of the TP roll directly across from one another; when the craft is put together, the fan of feathers will be slid into these slits to keep the feathers in place / upright.
      • That’s it for prepping the materials for this craft. Below are the instructions for actually DOING it, which you’ll need for your dinner guests and to assemble your sample turkey. At your dinner, provide your crafters with the materials (beaks, waddles, feathers, eyes, markers/pens, glue), the sample turkey and instructions.
    • Assembly Instructions:
      • Start by writing on your feathers. I chose 5 generic things one might be thankful for (think Family Feud top 5 answers on the board…).
      • Next, glue the bottom of the feathers together in a fan.
      • Then, glue on the eyes, beak and waddle. Fold the beak square in half and glue one triangle to the body with the other as the 3D beak. Glue the beak FIRST and then add the waddle. Remember, the top of the waddle goes on top of the beak, not below.
      • Finally, slide your feather fan into the slits on either side of the TP roll and examine your handiwork. It should look something like this…


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Black Friday Shopping Team Shirts

Every year, my two sisters, my husband and I are crazy enough to go out just before midnight on Thanksgiving for Black Friday shopping! Usually, my niece and her husband join us, but they won’t be this year.

Last year, we all got cute, matching Christmas shirts for a few bucks from Walmart and wore them while shopping. For whatever reason, we love matching as a group, but it also did prove useful for finding each other in a crowd because we were all wearing bright green t-shirts.

This year, we decided to go a little harder for Black Friday shopping and get custom shirts with our BF roles on the back (The Driver, The Planner, The Line Holder, The Wanderer). And, because I’m me, I thought “why not make them?!” so I did. Here’s how:


  • T-shirts – I bought ours from Joann Fabrics. I got long sleeved t-shirts for $5 a piece in a bright green again. Last year, we all wore long-sleeved shirts under the tees, so we decided to just go for long sleeves this year. Plus, the weather is showing as ~28 F, so it’s going to be cold.
  • T-shirt transfers – depending on what color shirt you buy, you will need to get either white/light or dark transfers. You can get them in packs of 5 or 10 from Joann Fabrics.
  • Computer + printer (make sure it’s an inkjet or that you get laser specific transfers)
  • Iron
  • Wooden cutting board
  • Pillowcase


  1. Design your shirts. We wanted something on the front and the back, so I knew I’d need at least 1.5 transfers per person. We went through a few iterations of design before settling on the ornament. TIP: when you’re doing a t-shirt transfer, anything that you don’t cut out and don’t have printing on will be white. So, if you want to do words, you need to cut out each letter individually or there will be a white background between the letters. Not a big deal for white tees, but on colored shirts, it looks a bit odd. That’s why I used a background image with the writing on top – I wanted somewhat simple shapes to cut out for the front since we were doing lettering on the back. We tried a Christmas stocking and a Christmas tree before landing on the ornament. The shape was just perfect for the words we wanted. You can use fancy programs (illustrator) for this, but I just used good ole Microsoft word with images and text boxes. For the back letters, which we made white to stand out on the green, I just created text that had a black outline with no fill. This actually made printing a lot cheaper because it required less ink since the transfer is white!
  2. Wash your shirts. I like to do this before putting on the transfer. That way, once the final product is done, I don’t feel like I need to wash it before I wear it. It’s already clean!
  3. Print and cut out your transfers. When I’m printing a huge amount of color like this, I’ll print one transfer at a time. That way, if your ink starts to go and you need to change it, you don’t have a bunch that are a waste because the color is funky. To cut out the ornaments and letters, I used a combination of scissors and an exacto. For the most part, I used the scissors. The exacto came in handy for the small inner parts on letters like P, A, and D.
  4. Prep your ironing materials. Ultimately, follow the instructions in your transfer pack, but mine called for a pillowcase over a wood cutting board and an iron pre-heated to the cotton setting. Be sure to iron the article of clothing first, especially where you’re going to put the transfer on. Then, iron the pillowcase on the cutting board. Then insert the cutting board with pillowcase between the layers of your project (front and back of the shirt, for example) and place it where your image is going to go. IMPORTANT: Be sure to try on the shirt and determine where you want the image to go based on how it lays on your body. I made this mistake once and the shirt looked so weird because the lettering was too low.
  5. Apply the transfers. Remove the backing from the cut-out transfers and place the image on your shirt (or whatever you’re using). It’s okay if the edges curl up a bit – you will then take the parchment paper that came in the transfer pack and place it over the image, being sure to smooth the transfer down completely. Then, iron over the whole transfer image for anywhere from 30-120 seconds, depending on size. You can check to see how well it’s binding at any point and continue ironing if needed. Be careful, the clothing will be HOT.
  6. Repeat for all shirts or the other side. If you’re doing a two-sided shirt, I recommend doing one side of all the shirts first and then going back and doing the other side. This will allow the image to cool before you press it into your ironing surface to do the other side. TIP: if you’re doing free letters on the back, like I did (free meaning they are individually cut/placed), I highly recommend using a straight edge to keep them all in line.

Here’s what you could end up with:


Happy Thanksgiving to all my American readers. If you’re looking for some last minute craft or food ideas, check out: